Gal pals at Derbyshire care home show it’s never too late to make new friends

At Coxbench Hall, Marion Lightbrown noticed that Jo Lees, who is hard of hearing, often enjoyed quieter moments and one-to-one connections, sometimes finding larger group settings more challenging.

Having experienced the emotional journey of transitioning into residential care herself, Marion recognised someone who needed a bit of extra support. The two soon became close friends, sitting together at mealtimes, spending time in shared spaces around the home and enjoying walks in the garden to stay active – Marion is an avid birdwatcher and the pair also enjoy a glass of gin together in the evenings.

Marion said: “Moving into care is a big change and it can take time to feel settled. I’ve come a long way since I arrived, so I understand how important it is to know there’s someone looking out for you or just someone you can sit and have a chat with. If I can help someone feel happier, that matters a lot to me.”

Originally a solicitor from Yorkshire, Jo moved to Coxbench Hall in July, where she met former teacher assistant Marion, who arrived in September. The pair first connected after being seated at the same table for mealtimes, and they naturally spent more time together, where their friendship grew.

Coxbench Hall offers an active social calendar, providing residents with regular opportunities to form new connections and get involved with hobbies and interests. In the run-up to Galentine’s Day on 13th February, the home is hosting a number of activities, including craft clubs, a quiz night and a minibus trip planned in line with residents’ preferences on the day, allowing flexibility around where they would most like to go. A cinema night is also planned for Valentine’s Day, with a screening of a film chosen by residents, reflecting the home’s resident-led approach to activities and entertainment.

Claire Richardson, one of the home’s directors, added: “We’re a close-knit home, so it’s really rewarding to see residents forming such wholesome friendships with one another. Our team is always here to support people, but it’s a real bonus when they also have those special connections with their peers.”

Now in its 42nd year, Coxbench Hall operates with a family-led ethos and a strong sense of community, both within the home and in the local community. With older people more vulnerable to isolation during periods of change, such as moving into care, activities and encouragement at the home actively help foster inclusion and belonging.

For more information about Coxbench Hall, please visit: https://coxbench-hall.co.uk/.