Chesterfield man who suffered years of domestic abuse urges other victims to seek help

A Chesterfield man who suffered more than 20 years of domestic abuse in the past is urging other victims to seek help.
By Michael Broomhead
Published 12th Feb 2021, 16:45 BST
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Paul Brough, 53, of Whittington Moor, spoke out after figures showed a rise in reports of domestic abuse during the Covid-19 pandemic

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According to the Office for National Statistics, 842,813 domestic abuse-related offences were recorded by police forces in England and Wales in the year ending September 2020 – up from 769,611 the previous year.

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The message to domestic abuse victims is 'you are not alone - help is out there'. Stock picture.The message to domestic abuse victims is 'you are not alone - help is out there'. Stock picture.
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Mr Brough, who previously tried to take his own life before he managed to escape his nightmare, is now happily married.

He said: “Victims of domestic abuse do not need to suffer in silence.

“Please know that you are not alone and there is always a way out.

“It’s not just physical abuse – it can also be mental abuse.

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“I understand from past experience that you feel like people would laugh and make fun if you told them you were a victim of domestic abuse – but now, things have changed and people and professionals understand and are there to help.

“Please just speak to someone.”

A Derbyshire Constabulary spokesperson said: “We understand that the stay at home measures put pressure on the home environment and can cause additional anxiety for those who are experiencing or are at risk of domestic abuse.

“Help and support is still available to you.

“If you’re being abused, are concerned about family, friends or neighbours, or are worried you may commit domestic abuse, please seek help, either from the police or from support organisations.”

For more advice, visit www.derbyshire.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/c19/coronavirus-covid-19/domestic-abuse.

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